MasterClass PLUS
Find Love and Happiness Through
Stronger Personal Connections
With Dr. Perrin Elisha, Ph.D.
Psychologist, author and founder of Depth Therapy and Relationships ReWired
Discover the science-based, heart-centered Relationship Map
guiding you from loneliness, heartbreak, fear, or divorce...
To the confidence and clarity to succeed in love.
With MasterClass Plus, you can unlock private coaching consultation
with Dr. Elisha as you complete the course modules.
For the first time ever...
I'm offering 1-to-1 coaching sessions to my online course clients.
I am not taking new patients in my private practice, but I'm making special accommodation for you, based on your commitment to the course, and achieving your goals for happy and secure relationships.
You want to feel clear and confident navigating the world of dating, relationships and create a marriage that will last a lifetime.
I know you want to be a mature partner and to feel confident in your relationship choices to bond and grow through your life.
You probably suspect that there is a way to manage conflict and differences that facilitate growth rather than creating havoc and pain!
But the problem is not knowing why some partnerships thrive effortlessly while others flail, and repeat painful patterns over decades.
Maybe you saw your parents, other marriages, and your own relationships be hit or miss. Often failing, tragically, with grave consequences.
Now you may feel afraid to get into a real relationship, for fear of getting hurt, or failing.
If This Is You, Youā€™re Not Alone
No one taught you the truth about how relationships work - what doesnā€™t work, how to avoid constant conflict or resentment or loneliness in relationships. Think about it, relationships are the most important and likely most complex area of life and yet we receive NO education about how they work or how to prepare for one.
But Here’s The Good News
Once you discover the science-based principles of bonding, and develop the skills to heal from past trauma, then you can approach relationships with a real map.
You’ll be able to expertly manage the differences between you and your partner with respect and grace.
With this new map, you’ll no longer be wandering aimlessly around in the dark!
That’s why I created Relationships ReWired. This straightforward, experiential course will answer the questions you either didn’t know who to ask, were afraid to ask, or figured “other people” somehow knew automatically.
My promise to you is that you will get the clarity and confidence to navigate your relationship world, unlimited by your past. You will have the insight and skills to engage in safe, thriving bonds for the rest of your life.
You will feel at peace knowing that our true nature is relatedness, and that you can express your nature freely, respectfully and honestly in a balanced partnership, in parenthood and in friendships.
By the end of this course, you will feel confident in knowing that you can have a life in which solid, secure, creative relationships are natural and abundant.
In this program you will:
- Unlock private coaching with Dr. Elisha after completing Love Thyself, and again after completing the rest of the course.
- Develop the skills to manage your own emotional life, replacing confusion, shame, guilt and fear with understanding, responsibility, and compassion
- Understand what “healthy boundaries” and “communication” actually mean
- Know what to look for and ask yourself when dating or building a relationship instead of trying to go on “chemistry” or “instinct”
- Feel confident in the healthy approach to conflict, rather than avoiding it or getting into power struggles or screaming matches
- Understand HOW to behave to build a secure attachment, rather than doubting yourself or your “picker,” or “playing games”
- Understand the nature of emotional manipulation and how to avoid it, so you never get caught in a manipulative or abusive cycle
"I was so stuck and angry, and scared that I was repeating patterns... now I am happily married with children! I used to chose unavailable men but learned that I had a longing for closeness that I was actually ashamed of, and the shame about this healthy need was sabotaging my dating life. Doing the careful work of sorting through my attachment history and learning what my unconscious biases were, i was able to transform how I approached dating and build the family I longed for!"
- Linda
A Personal Message from Dr. Elisha
I have studied emotional wellbeing and the mind-body connection for more than 25 years. When I look back on the turning points in my life and career, each has led me deeper into understanding that our essential nature is as relational creatures. Along my path of study and discovery, I realized that when we understand the principles of loving relationships, we have a map for the complex and multi-dimensional world of relationships!
Many of my patients have said to me: “Why didn’t someone teach me this when I was 20 (or 30”) ?!?" This course is a response to that sentiment.
From birth our very existence depends on our ability to attach to caregivers, and throughout life the single largest factor predicting our wellbeing is the quality of our relationships.
Let me teach you how to navigate the world of relationships with intelligence, compassion, responsibility and clarity—starting with a healthy relationship to your self and your past!
Here's What You'll Learn
In this course you will develop your Relationship Map, like a map with topographic layers.
You will lay the foundation with the research-based principles that govern emotional life and bonding.
You will layer your individual history, needs and dreams onto this map
in a way that is personal to you and to the person you choose to connect with.
This map allows for you to heal what needs to be healed and enter into a bond that is set up to succeed!
Module 1: Who Am I?
We begin with a healthy YOU!
This section looks at the question “who am I,” to develop a healthy sense of identity from multiple dimensions, to build a sturdy foundation for entering partnership.
Here you will discover:
- How to define and integrate the unconscious aspects of your identity
- How to define your core values
- How to develop a stable yet flexible and cohesive identity
- The key to processing your emotional life in a constructive manner
- A foundation for navigating the masculine and feminine within yourself and within a partnership
- A roadmap for navigating addictions in yourself or a partner
Module 2: Know Your Story
I will guide you through an exploration of navigating your personal attachment (bonding) history.
You will learn how your own story allows for the establishment of secure bonds. We cannot establish secure, thriving bonds if we do not digest our own history!
Here you will discover:
- The fundamental predictor that is in your control to determine your relationship future.
- Why your attachment history does NOT predict your relationship future
- What is SHAME and how to avoid a cancerous takeover of shame in your inner world
- How to discern your attachment style—and that of a potential partner—and how to use that information to set a strong foundation for any relationship
- Why insight into your unconscious makes change and evolution of your personality possible, and easy
Module 3: Dating Roadmap
Here we delve into the dynamics of relationships.
Whenever you put two unique people together, something magical yet complex occurs. Because this magic is multidimensional, you need a roadmap to navigate this territory, to see clearly, to show up wisely, and to make healthy decisions.
Here you will discover:
- Rules of Engagement for Dating
- What is Attunement, and how it helps you discern infatuation from love
- What is codependency, and how to spot it—and stop it
- What is healthy interdependency, and how to create it
- The 3 questions to ask before you commit to a serious dating relationship
- 4 personality traits that spell relationship success
Module 4: Navigating a Healthy Relationship
Once you settle into a dating relationship, it takes actual skill and some great “rules of engagement” to turn your relationship boat into something sturdy and storm-worthy.
Here you will discover:
- What are healthy communication skills
- How two people can resolve conflict in a way that actually strengthens their bond and trust
- What are healthy boundaries
- How to define your own boundaries for sexual intimacy
- How to identify dealbreakers early on
- How to disclose or handle issues of mental illness, trauma or depression
Module 5: Two Minds
We explore the key to deepening a relationship into a long term, sturdy partnership.
Moving from a dating relationship to commitment and attachment is a significant step, and many people get stuck or scared here. Gain mastery and confidence to know when you are ready for this step, and how to do it skillfully.
Here you will learn:
- Exercises to practice with yourself—and a partner—to strengthen your ability to talk about sensitive subjects
- The meaning of separations and reunions in partnership, and how to handle them wisely
- The meaning of rupture and repair in partnership, and how to honor them appropriately
- How to share your Sacred Wound, and your partner’s Sacred Wound, to create a Sacred Bond
Module 6: Two Minds and a Third Entity
In this session, we explore establishing the norms of a secure attachment.
As a relationship progresses and deepens, its long term success depends upon the degree to which the norms of a secure attachment are established. We establish these norms in conflict and in times of ease, and thus ensure the ongoing growth along a healthy trajectory.
Here you will learn:
- What a secure bond feels like
- How to spot Confirmation bias, and your templates skewing your experience
- Behaviors and exercises to strengthen the security of your bond
- Rules of Engagement for Marriage or Committed Partnership
- How conflict and difference can be used to strengthen—not weaken—your relationship
Module 7: Advanced Topics for Mature Minds
The ebbs and flows of a long-term relationship (including parenting relationships, friendships, and co-workers) come with a host of complications, of course!
This should feel exciting and enriching, even when challenging.
In this section you will feel equipped for these dimensions of attachments through;
- Understanding the nature of Projection in simple, recognizable terms, so you can go deeper, and still retain your individuality
- Know when you are the face of Projective identification, and what to do about it
- Be able to clearly spot early signs of Emotional manipulation and abuse so that you can stop it in its tracks—before it wreaks havoc on your self-esteem, or someone else's.
- How to properly heal from emotional manipulation or abuse in a past relationship
- The ability to identify dealbreakers in an ongoing marriage or partnership, or the need for outside help
Here's What You'll Receive
45+ Training Videos
Each module for the course has 5-7 short, easy to consume training videos that cover all of the material you need to master the content.
Exercises & Reflection Questions
Each session comes with 1-3 exercises to put your learning into action. These exercises are journaling or personal reflection, exercises to do with a partner or friend, and tracking exercises to strengthen your emotional muscles and insight capacity.
Downloadable Workbook
This workbook will guide you to complete your exercises and personal reflections to ensure that the learning is transformational and personal to you.
Built in Private Coaching with Dr. Elisha
After completing Module 2 and again after completing Module 7, you will unlock a private coaching call or video session with Dr. Elisha. You can use this time to get personalized feedback and guidance for any of the course material.
"I was lost and lonely in my marriage... now I feel clear and confident about my needs and how to make sure they are met in my relationships! I felt so guilty that I was having an affair, and came to realize that I had entered my marriage with no map of relationship and chose and created a dynamic that possessed none of the qualities of a secure bond. In fact, my marriage was toxic and bad for me. Understanding this, I had the courage to be honest and ask for what I needed. When I realized there was a map for healthy adult relationships, I had the confidence to end my unhealthy marriage and form a healthy bond for the first time! I didn't even know what that was or how good it could feel before!"
- Zach
Plus Special Bonus Content
Valued at more than $1500!
Exercises Workbooks ($105 value)
This workbook is the host for your transformation, where you discover the key to allowing your past to be the doorway through which you walk to the future you choose and the emotional skills to approach any relationship issue with grace. Exercises map to each of the seven course modules.
Free eBook: Self-Care—The Key to Extraordinary Relationships ($19 value)
Learn to transform your relationship with your inner world, and become the kind of partner anyone would be lucky to find!
Bonus Training – Attachment Principals & Children ($250 value)
Save your children lots of therapy! This special training will assist you in translating attachment principles into your relationships with and approach to your children.
Bonus Training – Attachment Principals & Friends ($250 value)
A Relationship Map can guide all areas of your life! This training provides simple tools that both deepen friendships and avoid common friendship pitfalls
Bonus Training – Attachment Principals at Work ($250 value)
Trouble handling a difficult boss or group dynamic? Attachment principles help here, too! Guided by a healthy approach to emotional reactions in general, learn simple skills to defuse workplace tension while increasing productivity and teamwork.
Bonus Training – Understanding and Terminating the Shame Toxin ($250 value)
Shame undermines all emotional growth and is the toxin that undermines connection. Learn all you need to know about shame to clear it in yourself and diffuse it in others.
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Relationships ReWired Online MASTERCLASS PLUS Course
MASTERCLASS PLUS
$989
ONE TIME CREDIT CARD PAYMENT
7-ModuleĀ OnlineĀ Course
+ 2 Private Coaching Sessions
All Course Materials
+ PLUS $1500 in Bonus ContentĀ
3 MONTHLY PAYMENTS
$335
PER MONTH
7-Module Online Course
+ 2 Private Coaching Sessions
All Course Materials
+ PLUS $1500 in Bonus Content
About Perrin Elisha, Ph.D.
Dr. Elisha is a psychologist and psychoanalyst – meaning that she has the most in-depth training available – to treat the whole of a personality, getting to the root of relational difficulties and healing one’s identity.
She has worked for more than two decades in mind-body integration and relational wellness for her patients in private practice: Depth Therapy. Through this work she has distilled a fundamental wisdom about the relational nature that underlies wellbeing and life satisfaction, and has helped thousands of people to heal their past wounds and manifest the future they deserve.
She is the author of The Conscious Body and has taught postgraduate courses for many years throughout Southern California. She currently lives and works in Aspen, Colorado with her family and extended family.
Her deep understanding of how attachment relationships shape our feelings about ourselves, the world, and our expectations about relationships can help YOU excel in intimate relationships.
Frequently Asked Questions
You will self pace yourself through online videos which contain all of the course content. You will have exclusive access to the course website which houses all of the materials in the course including training videos, workbooks, recordings of past live group calls, documents, templates, PDfs, etc. This will be a highly engaging, experience that you can access and utilize for a lifetime.
No. Just a computer or mobile device with an internet connection.
Yes! The material is a great conversation starter and conversation guide for two people working to create or improve a thriving partnership. If you are taking this course with your partner, simply email me and I'll make sure you both have login information of your own (two for the price of one!)
This course is not therapy and does not replace therapy; it is transformative education that gives many people the tools they need to do their own self growth work and/or dramatically accelerates any therapeutic process.
The content of the course represents material that is covered in any good psychodynamic, psychoanalytic, attachment-based therapy and gives you the tools to empower you to do vast amounts of healing and growth work. If you have a therapist, this will accentuate and accelerate your work. If you are considering entering therapy, this will immensely help you know what you need in therapy, how to select a competent therapist, and where to begin. If you have already done therapy but still feel stuck in relationship patterns, this course will equip you with the education and mindset needed to continue your own growth and evolution.
This course is for you if you value connection in your life and want to maximize the quality of connections across all areas of your life. If you feel stuck, or ashamed, or afraid of forming deeper connections, this course is for you. Whether you are starting out on your adult life or reflecting on a lifetime of relationship experience, there is something here for you to learn and grow from. This course is made for singles, couples, married people and divorced people who want to do relationships well!
Out of a deep respect for your privacy we are not utilizing a social media forum to contain this process. Participants will have the option of an assigned partner in the course with whom to share and reflect on your workbook process. We do have a Facebook platform where we will share educational material, updates, useful links and resources. This is not designed for personal processing, as it is not a closed group. We absolutely encourage you to share and practice but also to do so with people whom you have a knowledge of, and therefore do not feel that social media is the best forum for this! The live calls ARE a place to ask questions and for feedback around your process!
"Dr. Elishaā€™s course is enormously helpful. It is incredibly thoughtful and detailed and inclusive of all aspects of relationships. She helped me to understand my reluctance in the beginning of what is becoming a lovely relationship and she has given me many things to think about as this relationship develops. The depth of her knowledge about relationships is amazing. Iā€™m very grateful for all Iā€™ve learned from her. "
